Men have long been obsessed with their work.
For many, it is not just a source of income but a major source of identity and self-worth.
Why is this the case and why work has come to define men so much?
Moreover, why do other men judge each other through their jobs, and the impact this has on their self-esteem and overall well-being?
One of the main reasons for this obsession is the societal pressure to be successful and to provide for one's family.
Men are often raised to believe that success is measured by their career achievements and financial stability.
This is why they work long hours, put their health at risk, and make sacrifices in other areas of their lives to succeed in their careers.
Additionally, the competitive nature of the corporate world has only intensified this pressure, leading many men to judge each other based on their job titles, salaries, and other external markers of success.
However, this obsession with work is not limited to the corporate world.
Even in blue-collar industries, men are judged based on their job titles and the skills they possess.
This leads to a culture of competition, where men are constantly trying to outdo each other, leading to even more stress and anxiety.
It is important to note that this obsession with work not only affects men but also the people around them, including their families and loved ones.
Men who are consumed by their jobs are often too busy to spend time with their families, leading to strained relationships and emotional detachment.
Moreover, the constant stress and anxiety that comes with the obsession can also have negative effects on their physical and mental health.
It is time for men to realise that no one is really judging them based on their work.
Instead, other men judge them based on whether they are decent human beings, good friends you would want a 🍺 with, and loving partners.
Success should not just be measured by how much money one earns or how many hours one works.
Instead, it should be measured by one's ability to live a fulfilling life, build meaningful relationships, and contribute positively to the world.
In conclusion, it is crucial for men to reflect on their relationship with work and to understand why they judge each other through their jobs. By doing so, they can break the cycle of obsession and competition and start living a more fulfilling life.
It is time for men to redefine success and prioritise their health, relationships, and well-being above all else.
To conclude, I ask you to reflect on what has been said and to question your own beliefs and attitudes towards work.
I encourage you to prioritise your health, relationships, and overall well-being, and to challenge the societal norms that have led to this obsession with work.
❤️ you all
Watkin